We want our wedding to be a reflection of us & the life we have built together over the years. Most importantly we hope our wedding will be a day of fun & celebration! We want to laugh, drink, dance and soak in all the special moments throughout the day. We couldn't ask for more than to be surrounded by our closest friends & family, celebrating life, love & most importantly spending the rest of our lives together!
Alyssa and Bobby actually grew up in the same town and went to the same high school, but never really connected growing up! They had a lot of the same friends, which has become such a plus for them now! They ended up reconnecting after their freshman year of college.
Through one of their mutual friends, Bobby ended up coming to Alyssa’s house for a get together that she had planned at the start of the summer and that is where they started talking. Soon after, he ended up inviting her to a party he was having at Montclair, which is where they really hit it off! They started texting (over flip phones!) and seeing each other more frequently over the summer of 2010. As they both went back to school, they always remained a part of each other’s lives but not always dating.
Alyssa said, “I am grateful for our time together and apart during those years because it allowed us to do the growing we needed as individuals to fully come back to each other after graduation.” Years later and a few apartments later, they finally moved in together! Growing up together over the years has allowed them to experience so many ups & downs of life together and they cherish their relationship because of that. They know they are so lucky to have found their person so early on in life!
Bobby planned a trip to visit St. Thomas, one of their favorite places in the world, in April of 2020. They were both holding on to all hope when the pandemic hit in March that they would still be able to travel, but it eventually became evident that they would not be able to get to St. Thomas in April as all travel into the island shut down. They both kept their eye out for the time flights would resume & the island opened back up, and luckily in early July they found a window of opportunity. They booked their flights and landed in St. Thomas on July 7th. They spent the next few days exploring St. Thomas beaches and waiting for Bobby's best friend Ethan & his wife Michele to meet them in St. Thomas for a couples vacation. They were both excited for Friday, the first day the four of them were together, as Bobby had chartered a private boat to island hop. On that Friday, July 10th 2020 , they spent the day swimming with turtles (something they had on their bucket list), snorkeling & then anchoring at a private beach, Hansen Bay, St. John. They were swimming & exploring the shore when Bobby told Alyssa they should take pictures. As they started taking pictures, Bobby grabbed Alyssa's hand and she immediately started crying as she realized what was happening. He got down on one knee and proposed! Bobby then explained Ethan & Michele were in on the plan & flew down to help them take pictures and videos of the special moment. When they called Alyssa's sister, Becca from the beach she told them she had a special surprise for them. Becca coordinated & cut a video that had messages of congratulations from all of their family & friends, making it feel as though they had all their loved ones there with them. They spent the rest of the afternoon hanging out in Hansen Bay, drinking champagne and soaking it all in.
We love celebrating life as best friends, spending time with our loved ones & just making the most out of every day together.
Our furbaby, Nash is our pride & joy. We have a slight obsession with loving on him & catering to his every need.
Give us some country music, a NY Giants game or any reason to tailgate and we are in our element!
our registry
Your presence is gift enough, but if you'd like to get us something, we are registered at:
ZOLA
BED BATH & BEYOND
Groom
Bobby
Bride
Alyssa
Sister & MOH
Rebecca
Matron of Honor
Ashley
brother & Best Man
Stephen
Best Dog
Nash
Bridesmaid
Alyssa
Best Man
Ethan
Brother & Groomsman
Ben
Sister & BRIDESMAID
Brittany
BRIDESMAID
Angela
BRIDESMAID
Hayley
GROOMSMAN
Kevin
GROOMSMAN
Victor
BRIDESMAID
Ashley
GROOMSMAN
Billy
Groomsman
Mark
Ring Bearer
Kevin
BRIDESMAID
Gina
Ring Bearer
Finn
Ring Bearer #3 Coming soon
Baby Edwards
papa, Officiant
Robert